Friendships, relationships, commitments, whatever you choose to call them. Whether it's with a longtime friend, family member, co-worker, business associates or just someone you allow around from time to time - "WHEN IS ENOUGH, ENOUGH????
How much should you allow yourself to go through mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually??
The paths that I have crossed and people that I have allowed in my world have all been for a reason. I find myself thinking back to what happened to dissolve the connection with certain people. I look in my world today to see who is still around and wonder what my reason is for keeping them there.
Look at Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver for example. Who's to say she didn't know about this all along nor did she really just find out this year? How long would she go on allowing herself to be deceived?
We are only here on the earth for so long and tomorrow is not promised. I find it hard to just continue to allow you to be mistreated, disrespected, deceived, heart broken or just plain old DONE WRONG!!! Scars are hard to get rid of even when they fade, they are still there.
Maybe it's just me. I want to be adored, loved and respected just like I do others. It's not hard. Just treat people like you want to be treated. Know that your worth is more!! Now, if you like to be treated ruff , then that is a whole different BLOG that I need to post.
Love is rare.... Respect is earned.... Trust is required.... Honesty is a given..... Consideration is taught at an early age......
Look, it's all about what you allow and what you desire. If you desire it, want it. If you want it, get it. If you get it, keep it. Your life is YOURS and what you make it, is how it goes!!!
Always remember you are a creation of a greater vision and make that vision known. Make your limitations be known. Demand it and if respected enough, you WILL GET IT! If NOT, then.............
Thank you to all that have made me say, "Enough is enough". Because of you, I am the WOMAN I AM TODAY - HUMBLE!!!!!!
Until next time........ Muah :-)
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I like this. Often, we put up with certain situations and people that are detrimental to our mental, physical and spiritual - not to mention FINANCIAL aspects of our lives because we are afraid to be alone. I can testify that since I've been on my own and have let go of the abuse, I have less people in my life but the few that have remained, have proven to be the creme of the crop. I have learned how to stand on my own two feet and it feels great!
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